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Thursday, December 31st, 2009

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Subject:Kittens...I finally fixed my "Add-Me" page, hah
Time:11:59 pm.
Mood: That CAT is 2 cool.
Music:Spin Spin sugar.....
I just like seeing the funky cats ok?:P



My LJ is about 60% FRIEND'S ONLY but I'm friendly~~~If you add me and want to be added back, please let me know, I don't always notice.
~K.


Saturday, October 31st, 2009

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Subject:Question.
Time:5:01 pm.
Do you believe that we are inherently selfish, and that regardless of the endeavor, we have some self-serving incentive lingering at the core of our actions?

Are their healthy exceptions to your stance? Is there a definitive answer to this question?

Friday, October 30th, 2009

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Subject:A snippet that would fit on an A4 sheet of paper.
Time:4:58 pm.

I've been remiss.

It never ceases to amaze me when I hear my mother say the words "same same" in response to "what's new?" One week in my life and it feels like a damn season passes. I like it this way.

Since so much has, in fact, changed, I'm going to use bullets (and not least due to my burning eyes from 8 hours of designing):

-My former boss had a breakdown of sorts during a time of tragedy and immediately ended our relationship. I transferred my resources to a new website of my own creation, and simply continued with success. My new website (and organization), is called Bear Necessity Korea (www.bearnecessitykorea.com). God bless Wordpress for short cuts. And while I was initially heartbroken (and still am in pain from the loss), I'm now immensely gratfeul this happened for other reasons. We had our first successful fundraiser last weekend. As the old Zen myth says, 'Who knows what is good and what is bad?" This was GREAT in some regard. We live and learn. That lady inspired me, and I learned wonderful things from her. Despite the unhappy ending, she will remain special to me.

-We had to vacate the apartment on 5 days notice and I now live in a 3 bedroom place I FAR prefer in a foreigner district. I'm happier here. Now if only my cats would use the box.

-I've been getting a great deal of acting work and though it's good now, I dread the week when I make 200 bucks (it's been a good 3 months). So I accept it all, healthy or otherwise. I had some painful 11 hour days which resulted in an injured jaw and strained abs.

-I made the media (as in, the number one paper), and it took me 6 months of research and persistance but my god it felt good to get this story out The first of its kind in Korean major media.

I will be on World radio within the next month so that's super cool too:) With the gent mentioned in the article.

I have my own semi-serious site, www.kellyfrancesm.com for studios' and business card credibility but I swear it's just to pay bills. It can be really cool though; some jobs are really fun. I have now played a toaster, multiple asexual nodes, monsters, animals, people, vegetation, and the season of spring.

-I invested in my old website, www.seoulstyle.com and am now creative director and it's been mad busy, launch event in 5 weeks (complete with a fashion show)

-Joe is doing better (despite some chronic bronchitis) and well....life is SORTA settling down

-I'm due to leave the country in December and am thinking Bangkok or Bali and hoping to meet Hycie there aka [info]redobsession

-a close family member is expecting. I am barely unpacked in home number....what, 50? I totally lost count and average a new one every 6 months.

I have yet to grow up. I have wonderful friends and am working on learning to appreciate the value of one great friend, let alone the many I have.
I'm not fully healthy, but not unhealthy either and working on it.

Therrrrree ya have it. SAME SAME will never make it outta my mouth!


Saturday, September 12th, 2009

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Subject:A taste of basement, pusan (fundraiser)...if you can HEAR me...
Time:3:43 pm.



Friday, September 11th, 2009

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Subject:A 'Beary' good time in Busan
Time:2:13 am.
Mood: crushed.




September 9, 2009 by Moonbears.org/ Kelly Frances McKenna ‘A BEARY GOOD TIME’

On September 5th, the Groove Magazine and Moonbears.org team made the trek to Pusan for our much anticipated Bear Fundraiser, featuring the ultra-cool and creatively linguistic band ‘Hajimama’. The event was held at ‘The Basement’, a well-known local haunt that is small in size but well frequented. It’s the sort of place where “everybody knows your name” and owner Liam Cullivan probably knows your drink too. Expect a warm welcome and (if you're lucky), a drink on the house for being a new-comer.

A great time was had by all and Moonbears.org would like to extend their thanks to the immensely sexy staff of The Basement, and the members of both ‘Cosmic Cosmics band’ and featured band Hajimama, for channelling their ‘inner fashion model’ to help us sell our fab T-shirts. Liam was kind enough to throw in a free drink to buyers. All proceeds for shirt sales will go to Moonbears.org and the “Save Miracle the Bear Fund".

If you’re in Pusan, be sure to stop at the Basement, located conveniently near PNU and about 20 minutes from the KTX. Well worth the 3 hour train ride from Seoul and you can look forward to waking up to a morning at the beach if you hurry…the warm weather is waning! Be sure to have a shot of Sambuca with Liam before you head home and enjoy the complimentary munchies and good company. Think of 'Cheers meets Korea' and you've got the atmosphere of 'The Basement" down; it's got that homey feeling with a great lineup of entertainers and plenty of local gossip, advice and camaraderie. The crowd is about half expat, half Korean and 100% friendly.

For more information about the plight of moonbears in Korea, please visit www.moobearsorg

To join Basement, the Shizzle on Facebook, go to http://www.facebook.com/search/?q=hajimama&init=quick#/group.php?gid=240...
 

 


Thursday, September 3rd, 2009

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Subject:Stolen from Emily (with permission so I suppose that nixes 'stealing'
Time:4:25 pm.
Mood: curious.
Here's an attempt to get back into lj'ing and to "meet" some of the newer people - I'd love if some of you would do this too!

1. FIRST NAME: Kelly (Frances)

2. AGE: 32 as of yesterday

3. LOCATION: Seoul, South Korea

4. OCCUPATION: I kind of have 3 jobs. I'm Managing Director of an NGO called Moonbears.org, which is an animal welfare group that focusses on the Asiatic Black Bear. I consider this position (which I cherish) to be about 50% donation of self and 50% "career" based, really...the skills gained are priceless and I believe in what we do enough to do it for free. I began by doing it for free.

I do freelance PR (by contract), and usually with clients from outside of Korea.

My day job is acting (typically voice), but I do occasional commericals and recently, a movie. Pays the bills, ya know?

5. PARTNER: I have a live-in bf named Joe, with whom I've been for over 3 years. He's typically been a rock in my life, though this is a tough time for him. Life is full of change for us-we travel a great deal, we've had to jump around Asia a fair bit in the last year, and life has been particularly unpredictable in 2009. It has started to calm down.

6. KIDS: None yet. I don't actually have any ideas about what future there is for me in that realm.

7. SIBLINGS: 2: A younger brother, 30, married, has a new son, and he's a professional engineer for GM, Canada. Sister, married, age 27, teacher. The 2 of them have never lived more than 30 minutes from my hometown and find me to be...a little odd. I confess to not knowing them nearly as well as I wish I did and I expect I have little in common with them.

8. FOR WHAT DID YOU GO TO SCHOOL?: I pretty much wasted my time in high school save for playing a LOT of sports, and that made it worth waking up for. I loved sports.

I studied psychology in university and I learned nothing relevant to everyday life. I cannot stress that enough, but I do think a degree is a great thing and it shows you saw something through to the end and that's relevant.

I got a post secondary diploma in Interactive Multimedia and I'm shocked I passed. I WISH I'd paid more attention as I had to learn the skills on my own later. I dated the class wiz-kid:)

9. HOBBIES: Travel, wandering, blogging, jogging, networking, talking, learning new skills, reading magazines, conjuring up ideas, and I actually consider the opposition of groups I find unethical to be a hobby...caring for my 2 cats, reading celeb gossip stuff (it's fun), and I tend to pick up new hobbies easily depending on where I live (I just switched from Thailand to korea). I'm open to them and I think i work too much and need more of them.

10. My father is very ill and my mother cares for him at home. My mom works 2 jobs and I admire her to death but dream of the day I can whisk her off to Italy, as she dreams of doing.

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Subject:My impromptu Surprise Bday dinner^^ Some snaps (will make you hungry)
Time:9:55 am.
Mood: chipper.

So Joe ignored my wishes and accomodated my mad scheudle by arranging this on the fly and I had a FABULOUS time:) I got a camera for my bday so finally, I can share more of my life...that was bothering me. Here we are on the way, my first pix from the camera, a chic Sony cybershot designed by *oooohhh* a real life fashion designer. It's idiot proof, easy to use and very much "my style", haha^^

My boss and dear friend/sister, the lovely Gina, sent me a box of fabulous wine (and I began early-love it!) Hoe cool is it to have fine Sicilian wine delivered to your doorstep? :D I felt very much the princess.


This is an UMBRELLA and one of my gifts^^ How cool is this?






This is the Jericho cat
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Sunday, August 30th, 2009

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Subject:Came across this just now...has it really been 4 years? Wow, time flew.
Time:10:20 am.


I look psycho. :) I was clearly trying very hard to look curvy^^ I adore that photographer, and now I'm all nostalgic...

Friday, August 21st, 2009

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Subject:Rocks my world
Time:11:14 pm.



Thursday, August 20th, 2009

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Subject:While I drift off on cold meds amking me woozy...
Time:12:17 am.
Mood: blank.

After 3 years of bullshit in court, I am pleased to announce that today, I read the full verdict to my appeal which stated comprehensively that:

I WON MY COURT CASE.

Not partially,  not grudgingly, I FUCKING WON.

He has 15 days to appeal and is not expected to be granted an audience with the Supreme Court of Korea.

Yes, this was damn well worth it. If I'd lost, it would have been worth it. There was no wasting of time here.

The other day I was asked to define courage. Now, there are many contexts in which that word can be considered but for me, I saw a bridge in my mind.  I’m one of those artsy types who sees pictures before systems or sentences.

It was a rope style bridge and a "less than sturdy" one, swinging in the breeze over a chasm of coolness, covered with mist, riddled with rocky foundations, exotic foliage peaking out of the white haze.

There are people in this picture.

On one side of that chasm is a group of onlookers bearing sunscreen and sporting swimsuits. These are the "dreamers", the happy, comfortable people who gaze across that chasm and speculate about the other side but feel rather pleased about their cosy spot, warm in the sun, far from change that goes beyond the weather. There is nothing wrong with being part of that posse, and they dream good dreams and smile as people pass by. They throw nice parties. They often have lovely little homes and encyclopaedic knowledge of them. They know their neighbours well.

There is another group of uncertain beings who know that the bridge isn't likely to be stable. They know there may be a few ways to get across that sucker to see what the hell is on the other side, and know that this "discovery" would be a great thing, if only they were willing to ACCEPT that the act of such a discovery might result badly. Either way, it will lead to education “for someone”. In the process of speculating, the meet a few super cool people and feel fortunate to have had the chance, as these were people from strange and mysterious places.

Then, there are those walking the ropes timidly, swaying in the breeze, focussed on that crossing because a life spent gazing was a life spent wasted to them, and they WANT that discovery, they crave it, were born for it, they deserve it and want it done justice. Once in a while there is a crosser who runs quickly, laughing like a lunatic because the thrill of the chase was his "nirvana". They are the wildcards, and they are the ones whose futures vary too often to be written into a story such as this one. The knowlege that there is something 'there', is enough to convince them to never turn away from that bridge, or those like it.

Courage (in my little illusion)  is 2 things: Feeling at peace with the group you have chosen and pushing yourself to be all that you can be in that group of choice. C’mon, it takes balls to accept oneself. It also takes balls to risk a great deal for the sake of growth that may hurt.

A while back, an intern asked me if I was scared entering a new career at a senior level with no formal training. I smiled and told her I was absolutely terrified.



Wednesday, August 19th, 2009

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Subject:THE BLACKBERRY, the catalyst behind today's...well, attention span?
Time:9:41 am.
We can't get them in Korea unless we work for an American Company (rare).

I hear they're pure evil and people sleep with them. I think I'd be one of those ever plugged in addicts. The first time I played with one (last month)  I was blown away that a device could DO SO MUCH (I mean, the sucker ensures you don't get lost, checks your mail, keeps you occupied and you can monitor your family members?) Nuts! 

There are support groups for them, apparently? Are they that bad? In Korea, the coolest cell phones tend to be just pretty phones endorsed by celebs you wouldn't recognize unless you lived here and email access is crazy $$$. Everyone else is into the iTechnology, the super iPods or iRiver, a glorified mp3 player. We never leave our machines though...it's socially acceptable to have one at your side 24-7.

These seem SUPER cool. ---And super dangerous. I think I WANT ONE. I probably shouldn't touch them.


That said, I grieve the abandoned romance of old school snail mailed handwritten letters sprayed with scent. Mind you, I'd probably get angry at the fact I can't press 'REPLY". It would be such a novelty, I'd frame it.


Not sure which is really more 'exciting' now...

Tuesday, August 18th, 2009

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Subject:Kelly, Movie Star? Righhhht...
Time:10:24 pm.
Mood: content.
I'm filming a movie Friday, Saturday and Monday (my part is teensie, I'm playing a 10 year old's mom-go me, haha). I was instructed to look "mommish".

Lately, the freelance voice work has lead eslewhere and while it's often cheesy and totally not in sync with my grand plans, I'm down with extra cash and new experiences.

I wonder how good of a movie mom I will be? :)

In Korea, a mom can be a LV toting vamp in skinny jeans and stillettos or a lady in a mu-mu with a visor...wondering which I will be^^

1 year more and I think I may be down with a country switchup...for a while anyhow.


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Subject:Patrick nailed it. I love it. And I would like to think I'm one of the birds that dissed the string
Time:10:22 pm.
Mood: contemplative.

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Saturday, August 8th, 2009

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Subject:Speak loudly if you believe in what you say.
Time:2:05 pm.

"And Abel, the second anyone in this field tells you this is too big for a small voice, you tell them they need to engage in some critical introspection. Tell them you are one of MANY big voices and their negativity is SMALL in comparison to that. Tell them you ACT, and therefore, you're making change, and CHANGE is huge. Ignorance is wasteful. HUGS."

This is how change happens. This is how ideas are generated. The fear of "being small"  is why some great ideas never make it out of the brains of those who foster them.

Special thanks to Teacher Nic Goddard.
To find Nic's lesson plans, visit moonbears.org (CONTRIBUTE PAGE).

Special thanks to the folks at Samsung Corporation who took the time to "research me" :) I enjoyed our lunch and enjoyed seeing you in person. Together, we can do great things, no?



Monday, August 3rd, 2009

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Subject:BETS FOR BEARS!
Time:1:19 pm.

Saturday, July 18th, 2009

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Subject:Sugar.
Time:12:43 am.
Mood: yucky.

I hate you. :(

Wednesday, July 15th, 2009

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Subject:I find this behavior to be disgusting. Apparently, not all people do.
Time:4:15 pm.
Mood: aggravated.



http://www.buzzfeed.com/awesomer/panic-bear-cci?sort=posted&z=1ERTUS#responses

Monday, July 13th, 2009

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Subject:Awesomeness. posted twice for being great,
Time:1:46 am.

Sunday, July 12th, 2009

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Subject:The tongue and the pen and the sword.
Time:8:04 pm.
Mood: gloomy.

Words are weapons...


Ever say awful things to the people you love because you're hurting?
Because you feel a need to cause pain, out of the fact that you're in pain? This is abuse, by definition...

I did today. I guess I'm lucky that the injured party loves me enough to forgive the need to lash out and draw blood.

Photo by Giles Clement

Saturday, July 11th, 2009

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Subject:Recent self discovery
Time:4:17 pm.
Mood: contemplative.

I've discovered that I genuinely enjoy managing people-something I seemed to suck at in the past, and I believe it stemmed from my role in a 1990s emotionally abusive relationship during which I was trained to believe that I was fundamentally incapable of making a good decision.
 
I hope that my NGO work leads to more managerial work, though I remember at time at which I balked at the notion that I was the chick in charge.

These days, I feel like every month contains a year of growth...not a bad thing. No stablility, but I've always welcomed changes of just about every sort. Weather, landscape, language...bring it.

Why not? A year is so short and we have so few of them. To paraphrase Edison, those who don't make mistakes likely don't make much.

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